One Year an Island Girl , Already

One year of waking up to seeing this view from my balcony while sipping my morning latte.

Dawn over the Salish Sea, with mainland mountains in the background.

One year of enjoying the freedom and…ahem…adventures that come with renting an apartment. Update: the Stompy McStompersons moved out at the end of February…and though others have since moved in, the noise from above is almost non-existent, in comparison! Heavenly….

Crazy M has been mostly quiet – so quiet that I wondered if perhaps she had finally been committed or incarcerated somewhere. But no…I have seen her driving in and out of the complex recently.

S (“Good Neighbour S”, I have dubbed him) continues to offer assistance and lets me know he is “on guard” and ever watchful of strange goings on in the building as well as Ye Olde Parking Lot. Speaking of…

About the only complaint I have currently is of meeting the same couple of old men in the hallway – enroute to the parking lot where they like to unfold lawn chairs in the shade of the arbutus trees, and take in the fresh air, daily. They continually apologize (4 times now!) for not wearing masks (as they are supposed to) when encountering me in the hallway.

Wearing as mask (as mandated, in apartment common areas) means never having to say you’re sorry, too.

Yes, I love renting. It is so freeing after being responsible for and renovating a large and historically significant building and all of the other shit I went through for the past 7 years.

One year of missing my family, and friends-that-feel-like-family… left behind in Ontario.

Surprise flower delivery this week from “The Boys” – my good friends Kenn and Jonathan – who moved into my old flat at my former building, back in Ontario.

One year of being able to spend more time with my daughter and her man.

One year of soaking in the stunning beauty of my new home (too many posts to link – feel free to explore on your own, by looking back at my posts of the last year!)

One year of hosting old friends and meeting new – formerly virtual – friends, in my new home.

One year of walking down to the beach (5 minutes away), and finding treasures like this:

Sand art, artist unknown. At Departure Bay in Nanaimo.

One year of getting used to a much more relaxed vibe amongst my fellow citizens of Vancouver Island.

Graffiti seen, on one of my walks to and from the local shopping plaza. I’ve heard BC called the Left Coast and the Wet Coast, but Leaf Coast is a new one to me. It fits actually. Just ask the Party Bros. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Two things that stood out for me immediately upon moving here:

  1. There are SO MANY LIQUOR STORES here. Seriously, there is one a 10 minute walk up the street from me, and another one a 5 minute walk down the street from me. And there is one on just about every shopping plaza on this island! They are open from 9 am to 9 pm, seven days a week. And they offer loyalty programs!
  2. The pace of life is so much slower and nicer here. It’s like stepping back in time about 50 years. People actually stop to talk to you (yes, even in a pandemic)…from random strangers to clerks in stores. They make eye contact and engage you in genuine, unhurried conversation. Once the shock wears off it’s actually very, very pleasant.

So many things have changed for me since I retired and moved here. Yet despite it all, I have remained the same as ever. Steadfast, unchanging…

Bwahaha!!!! ๐Ÿ˜‰

I love living here. It was the right move at the right time, for me.

Rock on,

The WB

p.s. next week brings the June edition of the What’s On Your Plate Blog Challenge, on Wednesday June 2nd, hosted by Donna and yours truly. Mark your calendars. Can’t wait to see what what’s on your plate!

52 thoughts on “One Year an Island Girl , Already

  1. “Steadfast, unchanging” …. ๐Ÿคฃ

    … and yet, at the core, it is also very true โค๏ธ

    I miss you like you wouldn’t believe, but at the same time I delight in your island adventures. I raise my coffee to you in celebration of your first year on the Leaf Coast, and my very best wishes for year 2. I predict it will be grand ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Wow, has it been a year already? I really enjoyed how the positivism and happiness dripped from this page about your move to Vancouver, Deb. Good decision! The pros certainly beat the cons. If I was Canadian, I might move to VI as well. ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. It sounds like you found the perfect place at the perfect time. Liquor store loyalty programs? Damn… I may have to move there myself!
    ๐Ÿ˜‰

    1. The whole liquor store situation is so different than the province I left, where sales are controlled by the Liquor Control Board of Ontario (LCBO) through their stores, mainly. BC handles it differently, much like many of the American states I have visited. Thanks, Rivergirl ๐Ÿ’•

  4. The Misadventures of Widowhood

    This is a great, 1st anniversary post and reason to celebrate. So happy for you that your move turned out the way it did.

    And I love your pink hair. I wish I had the guts to do that.

    1. The pink hair was a drug store spray-on product. Supposed to wash out with 1 shampoo but it actually took 2 to get it completely out. I put it on to give the gals in my weekly Zoom call a laugh. I kinda like it though, so I ordered some semi-permanent colourful dyes to try out. Supposed to take a couple of weeks to fade out of hair. I think you should show up at your new place with wild hair. To set the tone right out of the gate, ya know ๐Ÿ˜‰. Thank you, Jean ๐Ÿ’•

  5. An amazing view, Deb, and your presence enhances the view. ๐ŸŒปYou remind about the difference good neighbours make. Another good point is the freedom renting brings.

    I am immediately curious about your heading photo and thank you for the explanation. Gorgeous photos! Victoria liquor stores are further apart, although, I manage to find wine. I loved this update/summary Deb. โ€œThe Islandโ€ is a better place because you are now on it.โค๏ธ

    1. Thank you, Erica ๐Ÿ’• How warm and welcoming is your comment! Iโ€™m glad to read that your wine-sourcing skills are no match for the lack of liquor stores in your region ๐Ÿ˜‰. Soon this pandemic will be in the rear view, and we can travel and socialize more freely again. And your presence will enhance my view!

        1. How crazy good is it that we will be โ€œneighboursโ€ this weekend, at Long Beach?!?!? What are those odds? I need to buy me a lottery ticket. ๐Ÿ˜„

  6. I’m amazed that it’s been a year since you headed west. [And what a year.] I am happy to know that your days are quieter now, and that you look good with pink hair. I’d be shocked too if people, strangers, actually spoke to me. Still, having a sense of belonging would be nice.

  7. retirementconfidential

    A year already — kind of amazing! But so are those views. It seems to me you picked wisely. Liquor stores and liquor laws are an interesting subject. I laughed at the loyalty program and then remembered we are in one.

  8. Hard to believe that it’s been a year already… yet, you’ve embraced the Island like a native. The whole liquor store thing in some places has me baffled. Although we also have liquor stores, we can bay anything we want at our local grocery stores. I remember the first time I encountered a government-regulated store concept. I was in Colorado and probably spent 20 minutes in a grocery store looking for their liquor section so I could buy a bottle of wine. Finally I asked someone and they told me I’d have to walk three stores down for that. Seems nuts to me.

    1. Well, you canโ€™t find liquor in the grocery stores here (but you already knew that)…luckily there is an abundance of liquor stores to choose from. You still might have to walk 3 stores down though ๐Ÿคฃ. Thanks, Janis ๐Ÿ’•

  9. It’s been lovely reading about your adventures on the West Coast – has it been a year?! Time seems to have flown, and you’ve done a great job settling in to your new life and taking us along with you. Can’t wait to see what your second year has in store – lots of adventures & yummies, for sure!

  10. AJ Blythe

    Wow, a year already! It’s wonderful how well you’ve settled into your new home, Deb, although your posts have reflected how much you are enjoying it. By the way, you look amazing with pink hair!

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  12. hilarymb

    Hi Deb – amazing … I remember the move across and the ‘anxiety’ whether it’d all happen relatively easily ‘wot wiv that thing that was engulfing us’ … so pleased all was well and now even more so … with the old clompers moving out. Have you all had both jabs … if so – really probably no worries … but I do understand. Old boys will be old boys! And arbutus trees are wonderful to sit around … just carry on enjoying.
    Your comments remind me of my time there … I miss it – but not my situation at that stage … I’m happy being back. I’m looking forward to food on Wednesday!! Cheers Hilary

    1. Thank you, Hilary ๐Ÿ’• Still waiting for my 2nd shot. Masks are supposed to be optional by September but for now are still mandated indoors. โ€œSee youโ€ on Wednesday! ๐Ÿ˜

  13. Isn’t it funny how some towns “specialize” in certain businesses? I always scratched my head at the sheer number of small neighborhood bars in Portland, OR., many of them side-by-side from one another. Where we live now (St. Augustine) it’s car repair places. They’re on every corner!

    Glad to see the noisy upstairs neighbor has left. Quiet is good. – Marty

  14. Okay, first. I LOVE your hair! It’s just cool and so are you! Now, a year??? Has it really been a year? I remember when you were posting about getting ready to move there. Man.. Well, at least it’s been one helluva wonderful year for you despite the pandemic. You have definitely made it work and that is inspiring. YOU are inspiring. Rock on!

  15. This post made me smile from beginning to end–HELLO PINK! I love reading good news and your change has brought on so much goodness. I love it.
    Cheers to you my pink friend!

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